Last Weekend - New Experiences - Quinceanera

A uneventful weekend. Just what I needed. Baby Bandit only had 2 events this weekend - Friday night football and a community service project on Saturday afternoon.

Last weekend, we were literally out late every night. He participated in a friend's quinceanera. (Click on the word for an explanation of what a quince entails.) The short explanation is a rites of passage for 15 year old Latina girls. It includes a mass service and a reception. It is similar to a bar mitzvah in the Jewish community. I was honored she asked BB to participate. Because I know the significance of this event, it lets me know her friendship with him is valuable to her. Also, he was able to experience something I would never be able to give him. We are not Hispanic; therefore, we will never have a quince in our family.

A traditional quinceanera takes alot of planning. The planning is similar to a wedding. There is a ceremony and them a reception that are very similar to a wedding. BB had to pick up his tux and rush to rehearsal right after school on Friday night. He did not make it home until after midnight. Like a wedding, the party had to be in place about an hour before the ceremony. The mass was beautiful even though we (my son and I) could not understand a word. The entire service was in Spanish. Later, I realized some of her family members do not speak English. At the reception, whenever someone spoke they said it in both Spanish and English. The reception lasted until 10PM. I left BB at the reception after being there for a couple of hours.

  I was hoping I had many pictures to share but here is one of the birthday girl and one of Baby Bandit.

It was definitely an experience he will never forget. Both Dee and her parents were very appreciative he was willing to come to all the dance rehearsals, help with setups, and just being a part in their special day. I am just glad he is building quality relationships with quality people.

What Happen to My Posts

Its has been a while. I wanted to post but I have been too tired or not enough time. If you really know me, I put things off because I let perfectionism takes over. I want to post more but I let my "expectations" get in the way. For instance, my post have to be a certain length. I need to write and critique it like it is a paper being turned in for a grade. I feel my topic is not interesting enough. Depending on the day, it could be a combination of all of them. If my blog is like the ones I read, I know my words/thoughts make people think, laugh, remind them of someone they know. If nothing else, people get some insight into who I am.

As long as I am trying to create the "perfect" post, it will take hours even days for that to happen. I think I am just going to type whatever is on my mind and keep it moving. I don't have time nor the energy to go back and forth with rewriting and creating. I am not a writer! I am just trying this out as a way to get my thoughts out. The whole diary thing never took root with me, but I love the idea of going back to read what was on my mind during any particular time. So, I think the decision has been made to write and post. As my blog fam has told me, write as if nobody is reading. It is here for those who want to read. However, it is really not about what others think but a space for me to get my thoughts out.

So on that note, I plan to post later about somethings happening in the last few weeks. But now, mommy-taxi services are needed. Man-child has community service duties in less than 30 minutes.